Social Media Break

I have finished a 10 day “fast” from social media. I stayed off (almost) all of my social media sites, plus blogs and podcasts too.  

It was super easy to stay off Facebook. I’ve not been on it much anyway. Twitter was easy. Pinterest was fairly easy. I do have a lot of recipes saved there so I grabbed a few during the 10 days, but it was easy not to browse. Instagram was a little harder, though I did it. I have that set up so I can see pictures of things that make me happy and I kind of missed it. GoodReads was hard. In fact I just plain didn’t make it. I did not realize this, but I don’t think I’ve decided on a book to read without looking at reviews for years, at least not for stand alones and first books in a series. I replaced podcasts with some audio books from the library and I had a hard time deciding which ones based only on the synopsis on the library website. Plus, I wanted to post the books I read because that’s how I keep track of them. I do stay off GoodReads for days at a time when I travel or go on vacation, but I just didn’t like not using it while I’m home and in my regular reading pattern. Kind of crazy to think about it. So I while I did limit my usage, I didn’t stay off completely.

Also, I probably get on social media more at work than at home. Oopsy! That is a crazy realization. I replaced some of that time with reading the news or reading up about other topics online when I needed a break. I missed some of my book blogs but others blogs I found I could do just fine without. 

The whole point of this was to take a break and figure out which, if any, of my social media habits were making me unhappy or having a negative influence on my life.  The results? I waste a lot of time on GoodReads. I should watch that a little bit better. The sites that don’t make me happy or feeling a bit negative are Facebook and Twitter. I already knew that about FB, so months ago I stopped logging in very much, and then maybe in September, I turned off all notifications on my phone so now I have to log in to see them at all. I love it. Twitter is like my negative news feed and I’ve realized it more now. I know I have the ability to change what I see so I think some changes might be in order before I get back on it. If I get back on it. I need that balance between knowing what is going on in the world and my own sanity, but I can get news from other sources.

So I missed some social media, but some I can do without. I did not fill that time with other, good things, but hopefully, I got more work done. When I logged on to a bunch of sites again this morning, I just thought Huh. I’ve been wondering what I’ve been missing, but the answer is: not much.

A Fun Weekend

Last weekend I went to the Utah Shakespeare Festival in Cedar City for the first time. I’ve always wanted to go but with finding someone to go with and figuring out schedules and things, I just never did. So I went by myself and I had a great time.

I took Friday off work and hit the road around 10:00 am. On the way, I stopped to go shopping, and then a little later I stopped at the Cove Fort visitor’s center. A nice sister missionary took me through the place. When I got to Cedar City, I checked into my hotel and had enough time to go get something to eat and go figure out where to park on the SUU campus.

The first play I saw was The Liar. It was a comedy about a guy who can’t (won’t or doesn’t want to?) tell the truth and a case of mixed up identities. It was funny. It was written in the 1600s but translated into English and “updated” a bit for modern audiences. They rhyming speech was hilarious, as was the fun modern updates, such as a light saber duel.

On Saturday I was a little lazy in the morning but ended up at the Frontier Homestead State Park museum. I always love seeing any part of history and pioneers are a big part of my history. I liked the museum with the old houses, log cabins, and carriages, etc. Then I wasted some time on campus and went to my next play: The Foreigner. I have seen that one before and it was still so funny. They did a great job with it. It’s about a shy guy whose friend decides to help him out by telling people he doesn’t speak English. He then overhears all kinds of things. It’s funny, but also has a great message about the value of people, no matter where they are from.

After that, I drove back home.

I would totally go again, but I’d do things a little differently next time. First, I’d make it a 3 day weekend. It’s a lot of driving for 2 days. There were a bunch of things near Cedar City I thought about seeing, but didn’t really want to get back in the car for a drive. Making it into 3 days would help with that and give more time to see other stuff, plus go to the plays. I’d also look more into the festival itself. I did go to one orientation before my second play, but I didn’t realize the lectures and things they do, or the timing of them. It’s my own fault, but I would have liked to attend some of those also.  Plus, I didn’t actually see any of the Shakespeare, and I’d like to do that, especially if I could go to one of the lectures/orientations to become more familiar with whatever play I was seeing. There are only about 5 that I’m really comfortable with.

People keep asking me who I went with and I say nobody. I go to movies and plays and other stuff by myself at home all the time and I travel for work by myself but haven’t done a lot of solo travel for fun. As I do travel by myself I’m slowing seeing why people love it. It’s pretty freeing to do what I want to do and when and just going instead of having to find weekends that work for multiple people. The downside is not being able to split the cost of a hotel room, but I think I can handle that.